Marriage

Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognised union between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between those spouses, as well as between them and any resulting biological or adopted children and affinity (in-laws and other family through marriage). The definition of marriage varies around the world not only between cultures and between religions, but also throughout the history of any given culture and religion, evolving to both expand and constrict in who and what is encompassed, but typically it is principally an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually sexual, are acknowledged or sanctioned. In some cultures, marriage is recommended or considered to be compulsory before pursuing any sexual activity.

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Meaning . Marriage . Coercion

What constitutes a simple scenario of coercion in marriage? Can emotional pressure lead someone to agree unwillingly? Some elders argue that emotional manipulation differs from actual coercion. Is this viewpoint accurate?

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 1 week ago

If marriage was recited by force or coercion, such marriage is invalid in Islam.

Wassalam.

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Zina . Divorce . Kaffara . Marriage . Woman

If a married woman commits Zina and sincerely repents, can she marry that man after a divorce or widowhood? Are there any atonement options or other measures she should consider?

Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answered 3 weeks ago

Bismihi ta'ala

No, she cannot marry that man at all, and under any circumstance.

Of course, there is a slight difference of opinion among our esteemed jurists, so it is best for her to also confirm the fatwa of her Marja' taqleed.

And Allah knows best

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Brother . Daughter . Marriage . Grandparents

Can a boy marry his grandfather's brother's daughter according to Islamic law?

Sayyed Muhammad Husaini Ragheb, Sayyed Muhammad Husaini Ragheb has a BA in Law from Guilan University, Iran and has also undertaken Hawzah studies in Qom. He used to be a Cultural Affairs director of Ethics Group of Al-Mustafa... Answered 1 month ago

Salam
Yes

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Iddah . Woman . Khula . Marriage

Is it necessary for a woman to observe iddah after obtaining Khula'a if there was no intercourse during the three years of marriage?

If the marriage was never consummated and no sexual inter course happened at all, then no Iddah will be required after the divorce or Khul’a. If marriage was consummated and sexual intercourse took place between husband and his wife even one time, then Iddah will be compulsory even if they did not have intercourse for years before divorce.

Wassalam.

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Marriage . Mut'a (Temporary marriage)

What is the concept of Muta marriage in Islam?

Bismihi ta'ala

You can read a lot of literature on this, just try to make sure it is written by reputable Shi'i source:

http://mutah.com/home.htm#Literature

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Girl . Father . Sin . Marriage . Sayyid

Is it considered valid if a girl marries without her father's permission to avoid sin, when he refuses a proposal from a morally good and equal status believer, without valid reason, due to negative cultural thoughts about marrying a non-Syed?

I advise you to refer to your Marje’ of Taqleed and explain to him the reasons of father’s refusal then take his advise as a Marje’ of Taqleed.

You can contact your Marje’ of Taqleed by email to telephone.

Wassalam.

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Girl . Father . Sin . Islamic Culture . Marriage

If a girl is certain that her father will reject a proposal from a pious and compatible boy due to non-Islamic cultural reasons, can they get married without informing him to avoid committing a sin?

Bismihi ta'ala

If she does not want to approach her father about this, she must try to find alternative ways to inform him and get his approval, like through elders, local scholars, etc.

We must remember that in marriage, there are many surrounding factors that make it successful. One of them is harmony and blessings from parents.

And Allah knows best

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Children . Marriage . Prophet Adam

Who did Qabeel marry in order to continue the generation, considering he killed Habeel and was the only child of Adam and Eve?

Bismihi ta'ala

Please read this article, and hopefully it will be beneficial and answer your question.

https://www.sheikh-alsalami.org.au/2017/11/22/how-did-adam-and-eve-pro-c...

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Sunni . Girl . Marriage . Community . Marriage

What should I do if I am marrying a Sunni girl who respects and understands the Ahlul Bait, and her Sunni community is requesting their own Alim to officiate the Nikah?

Bismihi ta'ala

Although the Nikah could be valid, if the correct standards for Islamic marriage contract is observed, it is not a good sign if they "insist" on having their own 'Alim to do it.

If you choose to marry someone outside of your Madhhab, it is very important to have strong ability to manage things. You must be strong enough to have to deal with the issues that arise, regarding your Shi'i beliefs, your rituals, how the house is managed, and the future children.

There are good examples of a Shi'i marrying a Sunni, and both observe the highest level for each other's beliefs. That is how it should be.

However, there are many bad examples and bitter experiences, which is why one must be extra cautious, and not just think about accepting their 'Alim to officiate the Nikah, but also what level of involvement, interference, influence, or intimidation they will have.

Marrying someone from another madhhab is permissible only if one has assurance they will not be influenced, for them and the children as well.

And Allah knows best

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Sister . Father . Marriage

What can be done if a sister from a different background wants to marry someone who is rejected by her family based on cultural, heritage, and sectarian differences, even though the reasons are invalid due to Islamic principles?

We should support everyone especially Muslims who need our support. In this case, it is good to try to convince her family to accept the proposal.

'Wassalam.

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Girl . Father . Marriage . Sayyid

Can an unmarried girl marry a pious compatible man, even if she knows her father will not allow it due to non-Syed status, in order to protect herself from committing sin?

This is an issue in some countries among some people who think that cultural matters are to be followed in marriage.

I advise you to refer to your Marje’ Taqleed to seek his guidance.

Wassalam.

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Girl . Noble . Lie . Marriage

Should I be truthful about my past to a prospective noble man who insists on honesty, even if it may lead to him rejecting me, or should I lie and marry him?

You don’t need to mention you past sins to any one but Allah Who is The only Forgiver. Disclosing your past sins to other than your Creator can harm you. Keep seeking forgiveness and pardon from Allah (SWT).

Wassalam.